human beings made up a lot of common traditions to cherish.
yet, they can't even possibly understand themselves, what for.
they continue planning their weddings from the childhood cos
they thought they ought to and end up in a showing off process.
they're dreaming about having kids and end up having ones to
fill the gap in between, using someone life as a bad stapler.
they assume that marriage can give a beginning to something
and that even moving in is a greatest step that should be that
completely thought through cos there's always the interfering
part of common made up traditions, common thoughts, common.
i have been always thought about whether is that too complicated?
emotionally charged school is simple, you don't need the proof to
be loved, the proof to be connected to something and the motivation
to take some decisions as if they were the others could have get.
you wake up in the morning and just realize that it became your
Home, your took oaths, you absorb yourself in full-filling the very
ancient form of one contract, based on dedication and devotion.
it's just heart-to-heart thing, without any social senses after all.
...
it takes so long to learn how it's possible to live in the border,
when this world if so far wretched, lost and not that demanding.
we have the right to criticize the system but only getting that
if the system changes the borders changes also so that's it.
it's might be comfortable about taking the borders when you
acknowledged of how the system is working on the usual ones.
i would never wanted to change any of this. it's that comforting.
we watch over, showing the common belong thing and never do.
watching over makes its benefits and gains out of itself, tbn.